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1.南朝宋刘义庆《世说新语．任诞》:"王子猷居山阴﹐夜大雪……忽忆戴安道。时戴在剡﹐即便夜乘小船就之﹐经宿方至﹐造门不前而返。人问其故﹐曰:‘吾本乘兴而行﹐兴尽而返﹐何必见戴?‘"后因称访友为"寻戴"。汉语辞海